I wish for happy hours as everyone else.
Though I wish for
it almost all the time, problems keeps popping out every now and then and it is
not unusual at all.
I am way too emotional and equally an immature being. J. How silly I am to expect for life without problems while life is nothing if not a continuous overcoming of problems. I simply misunderstand the situations and sometimes even the people too. May be my understanding levels are not of enough height and hence these are ways to improve myself.
At times when I have been ignored, felt bad and I cried.
When found I’ve been less cared, felt bad and I cried. When situations were not
in my favor, felt bad and I cried. I have faced reasons to cry. Some reasons
were personal and sometimes were of others. I cannot see a gloomy face of
people I love. When I saw my dear ones in grief, felt bad and I cried. Softer the
heart, the easier you’re hurt!! Tears are default. It somehow reliefs pain
but.. is a sign of weak mind. It silently says I don’t love myself. So once I
cried for a reason, it is done then. I am not going to cry for same reason
again. All I need is a commitment to
self. With
calmness and confidence, I can go through every dimmish conditions of life.
Actually problems are true mirrors which
reflect strength and competency of a person. Due to the fear of facing my own weakness,
I kept running away from some of those. But what is point if I am going to hurt
myself at the end. It is far better to face them, tackle in a best possible way
and gain more confidence.
I
now feel that the best way to solve the problem is to communicate. A free heart-sharing with a right person at a right time can change your attitude towards
the situations. More often conditions are neither good nor bad, they seems
either encouraging or depressing just because of bright or sad attitude of the
mind. I now have a courage to face my every challenges and results bother me less!!
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