Saturday, April 21

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Incomparable'...Unconditional Love


She is the most beautiful person in the world to me: She, who has been nurturing the child in me as well as influencing the women in me. She is Mother less more a friend to me. A friend who’s always guided me in the right direction, who’s wondered along when I lost track, who’s always been welcoming no-matter how many times I’ve left, who’s always been there when I needed her-even when I thought I didn’t…She who’s never enforced her rules on me, instead has allowed me to learn from my mistakes.
She,whom I’ve less expressed my affection towards as much as I’ve poured my discomforts and dislikes, don’t know why sometimes nearness makes it harder to express things we want to. Words find no voice and despite the willingness we fail; I wonder why that happens.Why end up sounding critical, when in fact wanted to show gratitude? Why so hard to utter those simple words that convey acceptance? Why withhold the positive emotion when there’s plenty amore? Why do we often miss to see what we have and nag over things that we don’t?
Luckily! When it comes to Mothering, “There’s less expectation and more an acceptance”.
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Monday, April 2

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Good Intentions are not enough


She thinks he doesn't love her..
He thinks she doesn't love him..
However both just thinks and the fact is both are Wrong!!

Falling in love is always magical. It feels eternal, as if love will last forever. We naively believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die, assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after.
But as the magic recedes with the daily life, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like him, and women expect men to feel and behave like her. Actually Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take the time to respect and understand each other. We become demanding, judgmental and resentful.
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