Tuesday, July 9

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Happiness is an Inside Job !!



The Sun rises everyday..true! So..Is it a sunny day every day? 
We know that, a day to be sunny needs a clear sky..free of heavy clouds.. one with a favorable season. Also we all know that, the true nature of a sky is deep and bright!!.. rest clouds ..either shiny-white or dark-heavy... ..they are just temp.

    Same is the kind- Human nature. Everyone of us is a bright being. Our inner instinct is serenity and love, and they ultimately provides inner happiness, a peace at soul. But sometimes our mood sways with emerging positive and negative emotions within us. Shiny white feelings come with the emotions like love, calmness, enthusiasm, hope, confidence, assurance, gratitude..  and those dark heavy feelings come with depression, unhappiness, resentment, annoyance, fear, insecurities, tiredness or simply stress... Sometimes these dark emotions drag us down, sap our energies and leave us astray..              
    Certainly, all of us experience a feeling gripped by dark emotions at times.. In time of disappointments, we stuck feeling sad and hurt.. In frustrating situations , we stuck feeling annoyed and angry..  If Upset, we stuck feeling afraid and worried.. and when time has been embarrassing, we stuck feeling ashamed and Sorry!! When drowned with such feelings, it certainly is not possible to communicate as effectively as we wish to. and it's obvio! nothings seems happening!! 

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Wednesday, February 27

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No one is to blame!

It was my parents' fault, my teachers' fault, my neighbor's, my boss' fault;
it was my enemy's fault,my government's fault, a leader's fault, a religion's fault, a corporation's fault.Why does God do this to me? He must hate me. Satan surely possessed me; he must control me.

When I was obese, I blamed those in charge of my food preparation or those providing nutrition education.When I was considered learning disabled, I blamed others for my unfair labels, unethical misdiagnosis and wrongful institutionalizing. When I was homeless, I blamed the government, society, civilization. 

When you see others lie, cheat, steal, deceive and conspire, do you blame them for their ignorant hurtful drama? Even if some injustice calls you to action, blaming them will not alter your situation. No one is to blame, yet only one person is in control of re-charting your life.The herd runs off the cliff blaming others for their stampede, and the crazy ones are those who accept personally responsibility, turn around against the shoving mob and walk away from the immoral demise.
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