Good Intentions are not enough

She thinks he doesn't love her..

He thinks she doesn't love him..

However both just thinks and the fact is both are Wrong!!

Falling in love is always magical. It feels eternal, as if love will last forever. We naively believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die, assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after.

But as the magic recedes with the daily life, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like him, and women expect men to feel and behave like her. Actually Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take the time to respect and understand each other. We become demanding, judgmental and resentful.

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Know you are changing!!

Aware and I observe ..a sec passes, a minute, an hour, a day and in same nature a week, a month, a year and years!! Point is.. Time- it keeps moving. Never waits for nothing. It never judges anyone of us . It knows no partiality as it brings equal shares of sunshine and rain to all of us. Sometimes showers us with blessings and in times hailstones of sorrows!!! and no matter what it never loses its Punctuality.. (ironic)

    Moving on in its own pace, it makes us move too.. then simply it brings Change!!
I felt this truth,.. Only the Change Is Constant !!..basis of everything.  Change is valid truth in every aspects of our life..Accept it or not!! and this can be either progressive or regressive.. all depends on You. Sometimes, we get too busy in moving ahead with our plans so may not notice .. but we continue to shine differently within our shades. We realize only when this shades appears to be contrast, or when we feel something unusual.
      Living a life where we are bound in relations. Beside kinship, other relation starts with being a stranger,acquaintance, friend, close friend, intimate friend, and still if it works well it is the best thing that happens in life otherwise back to the stranger again..we never know..
      Within family, we are pampered in our childhood, suggested in teenage, given a chance to decide on our own when we are young, tagged with responsibilities when we get matured, and expected the same care and love back again...Almost.. for all of us change is progressive..we are nurtured with our sanskar, progress academically and grow professionally and we lead our changing life..
      IF change is so happening.. I wonder why we expect for moments of comfort to remain as it is forever and panic in times of discomfort as if it will never fade away!! We are already this older living our both cheers and tears..Just relax,, chill ;) ..the best thing i can share right now is ..Live your every emotions.. rejoice happy moments,, encircle as much people as you can to share your happiness and cry out loud when u feel sad,, spent some lone hours with self, love yourself and let self grow in true life meanings... or share your discomforts with trusted ones!!
      IF change is so happening, why we expect a healthy relation to remain in the same way? (sounds -ve, but think about it). It is good to know that when daily life takes over, situations may undergo trails of ups and downs. We may become demanding, judgmental, intolerant and resentful with circumstances. And we find nobody to blame. Hence understanding the change and letting go grudges can be the better idea, what say? Also holding grudges is harmful to self anyway, because a contaminated heart can hardly feel a good feelings!! right!
      Living Life is so easy when we accept the change, take things lightly and move on!! 
God Bless..

Inspired by my lone hours...

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Overboard things that are weighting you down!!!

You are right where you should be at this moment. Now it is time to move on to what is next.


Whether your life up to this point has been easy or whether it has been difficult , you are here just the same. And your destiny does not care about your past.


There are plenty of reasons why you find yourself here at this time. What matter much more, though are the reasons you now have for moving forward.


As good as they have been, your triumphs of the past are now little more than pleasant memories.
As painful as they once were, your past failures are now behind you.


Do you realize how completely free you are at this very moment? Do you understand that the main thing holding you back is your belief that something is holding you back.


Today is your opportunity to fully taste the freedom and finally get beyond  the limits you're imposed on yourself. Reach inside, touch your most compelling purpose, and bring possibilities to life!!!


                                                                                                      - Ralph Marston

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way to self inspiration...

The moment when you just don’t have desire for anything. You sleep with no excitement for tomorrow, with no plans for tomorrow. You feel indifferent..something like all the subjects are just out for your interest. You wake-up in the morning.. ..may feel fresh for a while but after sometime you have nothing new to do in your life beside what you have in your daily schedule.

As you lack activities of your enthusiasm , u remain unmotivated. You will not find anything inspring that enhance your grace. The dullness in your activities will numb your mind and curtain your eyes. You do not see newness in anything. For you even the beautiful sunrise is just the one another daily act of the Sun. No amusements …no sympathys!!

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A Sheer Feeling….

Have you ever noticed friendliness, arising out from you, unaddressed and without any need and greed? No, I m not talking about friendship. Actually, friendship is just a state of mind,..It is subjective. About friendliness, it’s a quality, it’s your nature that have totally different meaning. Friendliness is your love shared unconditionally with all around you. It is a joy of sharing without any condition, without expectations, with no desire that something should be returned, not even gratefulness. It’s a purest form of love.

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LOVE...it just happens...

Love just happens 

If we fall in love just because someone makes us laugh,
what happens when we find them no longer funny?
If we fall in love just because someone is beautiful,
what happens when the beauty fades?
If we fall in love just because someone can provide for us,
what happens when they lose their wealth?
because love defies all the reasons,
when you truly love someone
you just can't find a reason, u just do!!
...I read these words in facebook! and i felt 'oh yes,.. that's why we call love just happens.

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