Just Through my Lens...

Right now,

I see it as a “bad break” life has given me..

I feel by now, I made those days unnecessarily difficult...

i just pressurized myself ,as my efforts through the year has lost their values today.. 

Though there was nothing to lose.. I felt I lost it!! 

But it is all me.. a mind-story of an emotional being,

feels like it is a defeat.. But deep inside I know it is not!!!

Above all, this is me who is again making a conclusion so early..

as if I know how my life should have been  and what will be best for me..( punch to self )

Slowly but realizing that I am a learner in every way!  

And from something that happened recently ..i’d learned a lot.  

Its all about my life and the satisfaction I want from whatever I do,
….no matter where!! 

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May be an Expert Planner....

Days ahead are completely uncertain. I may assert how my tomorrow will be..or atleast guess what may happen the next day but despite of all approximation.. what is going to happen ahead, I am less confident about it simply because anything can happen in the next moment. I don’t mean to say day tomorrow will be drastically different but being too confident is way too hard.

~Smiling~ I plan, I decide to do this and that, as if it is going to happen perfectly as I’ve wished for. Expressing my feelings, I am not trying to encourage anyone to stay a frivolous life Or discourage anyone to make their plans ahead. However I feel like deep inside everyone of us know that making a plan and moving ahead is just a way to live a life.. All that has to happen, it will definitely happen..that’s all.

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Incomparable'...Unconditional Love

She is the most beautiful person in the world to me: She, who has been nurturing the child in me as well as influencing the women in me. She is Mother less more a friend to me. A friend who’s always guided me in the right direction, who’s wondered along when I lost track, who’s always been welcoming no-matter how many times I’ve left, who’s always been there when I needed her-even when I thought I didn’t…She who’s never enforced her rules on me, instead has allowed me to learn from my mistakes.
She,whom I’ve less expressed my affection towards as much as I’ve poured my discomforts and dislikes, don’t know why sometimes nearness makes it harder to express things we want to. Words find no voice and despite the willingness we fail; I wonder why that happens.Why end up sounding critical, when in fact wanted to show gratitude? Why so hard to utter those simple words that convey acceptance? Why withhold the positive emotion when there’s plenty amore? Why do we often miss to see what we have and nag over things that we don’t?

Luckily! When it comes to Mothering, “There’s less expectation and more an acceptance”.

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Good Intentions are not enough

She thinks he doesn't love her..

He thinks she doesn't love him..

However both just thinks and the fact is both are Wrong!!

Falling in love is always magical. It feels eternal, as if love will last forever. We naively believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die, assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after.

But as the magic recedes with the daily life, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like him, and women expect men to feel and behave like her. Actually Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take the time to respect and understand each other. We become demanding, judgmental and resentful.

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Know you are changing!!

Aware and I observe ..a sec passes, a minute, an hour, a day and in same nature a week, a month, a year and years!! Point is.. Time- it keeps moving. Never waits for nothing. It never judges anyone of us . It knows no partiality as it brings equal shares of sunshine and rain to all of us. Sometimes showers us with blessings and in times hailstones of sorrows!!! and no matter what it never loses its Punctuality.. (ironic)

    Moving on in its own pace, it makes us move too.. then simply it brings Change!!
I felt this truth,.. Only the Change Is Constant !!..basis of everything.  Change is valid truth in every aspects of our life..Accept it or not!! and this can be either progressive or regressive.. all depends on You. Sometimes, we get too busy in moving ahead with our plans so may not notice .. but we continue to shine differently within our shades. We realize only when this shades appears to be contrast, or when we feel something unusual.
      Living a life where we are bound in relations. Beside kinship, other relation starts with being a stranger,acquaintance, friend, close friend, intimate friend, and still if it works well it is the best thing that happens in life otherwise back to the stranger again..we never know..
      Within family, we are pampered in our childhood, suggested in teenage, given a chance to decide on our own when we are young, tagged with responsibilities when we get matured, and expected the same care and love back again...Almost.. for all of us change is progressive..we are nurtured with our sanskar, progress academically and grow professionally and we lead our changing life..
      IF change is so happening.. I wonder why we expect for moments of comfort to remain as it is forever and panic in times of discomfort as if it will never fade away!! We are already this older living our both cheers and tears..Just relax,, chill ;) ..the best thing i can share right now is ..Live your every emotions.. rejoice happy moments,, encircle as much people as you can to share your happiness and cry out loud when u feel sad,, spent some lone hours with self, love yourself and let self grow in true life meanings... or share your discomforts with trusted ones!!
      IF change is so happening, why we expect a healthy relation to remain in the same way? (sounds -ve, but think about it). It is good to know that when daily life takes over, situations may undergo trails of ups and downs. We may become demanding, judgmental, intolerant and resentful with circumstances. And we find nobody to blame. Hence understanding the change and letting go grudges can be the better idea, what say? Also holding grudges is harmful to self anyway, because a contaminated heart can hardly feel a good feelings!! right!
      Living Life is so easy when we accept the change, take things lightly and move on!! 
God Bless..

Inspired by my lone hours...

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Overboard things that are weighting you down!!!

You are right where you should be at this moment. Now it is time to move on to what is next.


Whether your life up to this point has been easy or whether it has been difficult , you are here just the same. And your destiny does not care about your past.


There are plenty of reasons why you find yourself here at this time. What matter much more, though are the reasons you now have for moving forward.


As good as they have been, your triumphs of the past are now little more than pleasant memories.
As painful as they once were, your past failures are now behind you.


Do you realize how completely free you are at this very moment? Do you understand that the main thing holding you back is your belief that something is holding you back.


Today is your opportunity to fully taste the freedom and finally get beyond  the limits you're imposed on yourself. Reach inside, touch your most compelling purpose, and bring possibilities to life!!!


                                                                                                      - Ralph Marston

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